We have to face scandal and criticism on a daily basis. A tough bomb-shell'ter (and a good publicist & lawyer) is warranted.
For every person who adores us, there is a person (always a woman) who dispises us - for one reason. Jealousy. We rise above this. Most bombshells have a psychologist as well at that nice boy downstairs who is always ready to bring you a nice, hot cup of coffee and lend a kind ear.
Cher once mentioned that if you aren't in the gossip magazines, you aren't successful enough. Stand by your conscience. If you make a mistake, own up to it. Remember - for every action, there is a reaction. A little scandal can't hurt. We've never been wallflowers so scandal is inevitable.
Sticks and stones could break our bones whilst words will never hurt us (if we don't let them).
We are melodramatic and that's fine. But some bombshells are known for killing pain with pills and alcohol. Don't. Rise above this. You will prevail!!!
Thus I recommend the psychologist and neighbour. Heed my advice, darlings!